About Mr. Nobody – Gentle Coaching Ibiza
Hello
My name is Bas.
Some people also know me as Mr. Nobody, a name that found me during the darkest part of my life, when I let go of everything I thought I was. It stuck. Not as a mask, but as a reminder: I don't need to perform, pretend, or be anything other than real.
My Story
For most of my life, I tried to hold it all together. As a father, a partner, a man doing his best in a world that didn’t feel like mine.
Then everything broke: a breakup, burnout, identity crisis.
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I walked away from the life I knew and stepped into a journey I didn’t fully understand. It led me through unexpected places. From the red-light district of Amsterdam, a spiritual path through India, and finally a life for more than a decade on the island of Ibiza.
It was a Love Story with Ibiza herself
What followed was a deep unraveling.
I lived with only a few possessions.
I grieved the loss of my children, my family, my identity.
I entered the world of tantra, plant medicine, and shadow work. I touched bliss, and I met my own darkness.
There was a time I thought I wouldn’t survive.
"Healing isn’t a straight line."
Healing isn't a sraight line
In that moment, my inner child screamed its truth into the world. I wrote it down, and it became a book. On the very day it was published, I was struck with betrayal and false accusations. Everything collapsed again.
But this time, I didn’t run. I stayed. I did the work. Slowly. Quietly. Fully..
And now, I’ve come home to myself. Not perfect. Not finished. But real.
Why I Do This Work
Because I know what it feels like to be lost, ashamed, unseen. And I know what it’s like to walk through the fire and come out the other side, not as someone “fixed,” but as someone grounded, free, and real.
This isn’t coaching in the traditional sense.
I don’t sell you a 5-step formula.
I listen. I reflect. I hold the mirror you might have been avoiding.
Together, we meet what’s real, so you can live from a place that actually feels like you.
If You’re Here…
You don’t need to be “ready.”
You don’t need to be spiritual, broken, or even clear about what you want.
You just need to feel the pull that something’s shifting, and the willingness to sit with it, not alone.
If that’s you, I’m here.
If my story speaks to you, let me send you a gift.
Join my private list HERE and choose between my book or a 50% session discount.
